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Monday, December 15, 2008

P.S I love You....


I`m a great sucker for romantic movies… I love them and u can always bet on me to be the one who cries her eyes out in some of these… well this is one movie in which I have to pause the movie so dat I can first cry my heart out… I dont really understand why this movie has such an impact on me. And it always leaves me a bit sad but also a lot more romantic than I was…
Time and again whenever I have felt low and dejected I have always believed that shit happens but it happens for a reason… it might not be evident at that time but there is always a reason… and this movie always makes my belief stronger… I know the fact that I live in my books and movies makes me a less than credible counselor but still, this belief has helped me survive…
I don’t know what to say about the movie… maybe its love in its truest form… which may or may not exist and I might never find it for real but at least this is love in its real form. This is being there for each other even if death do us part. The guy actually gives a direction and a sense of purpose to the holly’s life. It’s not about ‘us’ when we are together but it’s about ‘u’ and ‘me’ when we are not. How easily we all forget the u and me after becoming an Us.. The movie is all about that… it’s just we all have it in us to live and survive but we need somebody to show us the faith and show us the way…
There are a lot of parts in the movie which makes me emotional but one of them is when holly asks her mother what’s the point… at some point of our lives we all have this question what’s the point… I don’t know, in fact this is that juncture of my life where I’m asking myself the same question… What the hell is the point??? Or are we all going through the motions of life without anything worthwhile coming out of it… I don’t really want to delve on this…
It’s just that this movie touches a raw nerve in me… so many times in our lives we have beautiful relations which we leave just like that… and the death of the relation ruins the meaning and truth of it… this movie gives a fitting end to a beautiful love and an even more beautiful marriage. That’s what I love about it… the importance and the way of saying good bye….

5 comments:

Absolutely Lost said...

Too many if's and buts to clarify, to understand the depth's of love. A trust to develop and a fight to become US. All in all you surely LOVE the movie !!

Indian girl with a twist!! said...

well... you are absolutely right that we forget abt u n me when we become us... but then you know there are very few US who actually in a true sense are "US"... most of these US are u and me in their own ways. They just pretend to be us cos they fear the society... I feel in a relation the day you start making your couple as US.. that is the very moment you lose your identity... and after few years when this US wont work and you would want to get back to "ME", you would realise that you had left him/her long back and now there is no turning back... so basically neither US left nor ME... you end up in a VACCUM...

S said...

Daniel Connelly: What do women want?

Holly Kennedy: [whispering] We have no idea what we want.

Daniel Connelly: I knew it!
Gerry Kennedy: [knowing that Holly is angry with him] Are you going to make me sleep in the tub again?

Gerry Kennedy: Kiss me arse!

Holly Kennedy: Kiss mine! In English!

OK.We have a similar taste, don't go beyond words, its just limited to the movies..and this movie is one highly loved movie !! :)

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Clueless Woman said...

well here i meet a guy who loved P.s I love u... i always thought this genre dont exists..
thanks for the comment... it did create an urge to go bak and watch the movie again

S said...

Sure do Miss clueless...by the way are u so clueless that u forgot ur name or is it a conceptual mistake....and its not only this movie...check my list ....ul find many similar ones :)

And btw, I'll have to see this movie once more today, seems like I don't remember the dialogues !! ;)

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Be good, keep watchin and psoting ! :)